The Cum With Us blog
Pleasure, fantasy & honest sex talk
Tips, ideas and conversations from the team behind our erotic audio stories for women.
5 Hot Fantasies to Sext on Dating Apps
Dating apps are the ultimate places to engage in sexting. We asked Flure, a fantastic open-minded dating app where sexting is judgment-free, to share the top scenarios to spice up your chats.
5 Tips to Spice Up Spanking
Some of us love a good spanking so here are a few tips to intergrate into your play…
5 Tips for Outdoor Sex
It’s spring and everyone is getting frisky inside and outside! Here are a few tips to maximise your outdoor sex lives…
5 Things to Remember When You Don’t Want to Have Sex
Everyone has different horniess levels and sometimes other things in life are more important than sex. Read below a few affirmations to tell yourself when you don’t feel like doing the dirty.
5 Pleasure Affirmations
Sure, you may be used to saying sexy things to your partner, but why not try giving yourself some lip love? Use the affirmations below to use in your daily routine to make you blossom like the flower you are!
5 Places to Use Your Clit Vibrator
Finding new ways to use your already in stock sex toys is just as fun as it sounds. Find out below where to use your clit vibe (besides your clit)!
5 Tips for Dirty Talk
When, what and how you speak to your partner during sex comes with a few considerations. Find out below how to do it like a pro!
5 Ways to Get in the Mood
Use these tips to get your partner in the mood for some sexy fun!
5 Types of Lesser Known Orgasms
The three commonly know orgasms include vaginal, clitoral, and penal…but did you know there are a plethora of other ways to have an orgasm!?
5 Ways to Make Missionary Marvellous
Missionary, the most common sex position, get’s a bad rap. But there are TONS of way to spice it up, and make missionary work for you!
5 Tips for Deeper Intimacy
Intimacy is layered and looks different on everyone but here are some starting points to help deepen your connection with your partner. And trust us, it will mean hotter sex!
5 Tips for Going Down
Five simple tips for going down on a partner, from pace and pressure to reading their reactions, so oral feels as good to give as it does to get.
5 Facts About Squirting
Squirting has many mythical meanings it seems in today’s sex talk. Some people beleive it exsists while others think that it really is all legend. Read below to find our deep dive into some facts surrondnig squirting- try not to get wet!
5 Kinky Date Ideas
You are not sure how you can add some kink to your dating life? We have a lottt of ideas for you with matching explanations! Time to get out of the comfort zone and into the kink zone!
5 Tips on How to Play Rough
Want rougher sex without crossing lines? Five tips on talking it through, safe words, aftercare and building intensity safely, from the Cum With Us team.
5 Erogenous Zones You Didn’t Know About
We all know the nether regions, breasts, and bum are erogenous zones but here are 5 we bet you didn’t know were also intricately linked to your sexual pleasure…
5 Phrases for People with a Praise Kink
If you know us you know that we love dirty talking (that is literally our job!). But if you or someone your with sexually has a praise kink here are a few other things you can say outside of “good girl” or “good boy”…
5 Tips on How to Have Multiple Orgasms
Here are 5 tips for beginners to practice so that you can achieve multiple orgasms, with or without a partner. (However, we do highly recommend a vibrator.)
5 Benefits of Listening to Erotic Audio
Call us biased, but there are SO many benefits to allowing yourself some sexy ear-play before or during sex or masturbation. Just make sure it’s ethical (like ours) and you’re all set!
5 Ways to Use Body Language to Seduce
Body language can be used to discern all different types of emotion, but if you understand it properly it can also be as a tool to make yourself more attractive.